Picture this. You have just been designated as your best friend’s Maid of honour. It is your first time to take on this role. You are totally clueless. To top things off, your BFF has suddenly morphed into Bridezilla. What are you supposed to do?

First, take a deep breath and try not to strangle your best friend. Getting married is a huge event so it’s only understandable that she goes off the roof at times. Wait until you get married and return the favour to her. Kidding aside, pull the bride to one corner and talk to her about wedding invitations, entourage attires, reception details, and the list goes on.

Like the details for the wedding invitations, you may also want to delve deeper into the details of the shower party. After all, it symbolizes the start of the union between a guy and a girl who wants to spend the rest of their lives together.

For this feat, call on the other bridesmaids and share your ideas as to how and where you are going to hold the shower party. On second thought, you may also ask the bride if she wants to know all the details about the party or would she rather let you surprise her. However, you must not take the bride by surprise regarding the date of her shower party. Let her know beforehand when the event will be so that she can prepare for it. No bride would like to look like a mess in photos taken on her shower party, right?

Remember to ask for the bride’s guest list Make sure that she prepared all the contact details of the girls she wants to invite. Other things you need to finalise are venue, costs, transportation, and communication amongst all the girls invited to the party. The details for the shower party may not  be as easy to accomplish as compared to wedding invitations details, but everything will be all worth it in the end.